Non Religious Wedding Readings for Your Special Day
Why Choose Non Religious Wedding Readings?
Choosing wedding readings is an important part of any wedding ceremony, whether religious or not. It’s an opportunity to express your feelings and to make a special day even more special. Non-religious wedding readings are perfect for those who want to keep things light and fun, without getting too deep into any particular religion.
Finding the Right Non Religious Reading for Your Wedding
When choosing a non-religious reading for your wedding, look for something that speaks to your relationship and expresses the emotions you have for each other. It could be a short poem, a passage from a favorite book, or something you wrote yourself. If you’re having trouble deciding what type of reading to choose, consider these popular non-religious wedding readings:
1. From Captain Corelli’s Mandolin by Louis de Bernières
“Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots are to become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being “in love” which any fool can do. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.”
2. From The Princess Bride by William Goldman
“Life is pain, Highness. Anyone who says differently is selling something.”
3. From the poem “Union” by Robert Fulghum
“You have known each other from the first glance of acquaintance to this point of commitment. At some point, you decided to marry. From that moment of yes to this moment of yes, indeed, you have been making promises and agreements in an informal way. All those conversations that were held riding in a car or over a meal or during long walks – all those sentences that began with “When we’re married” and continued with “I will and you will and we will” – those late night talks that included “someday” and “somehow” and “maybe” – and all those promises that are unspoken matters of the heart. All these common things, and more, are the real process of a wedding.”
4. From The Velveteen Rabbit by Margery Williams
“Real isn't how you are made,' said the Skin Horse. 'It's a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become Real.'
5. From The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz
“Be impeccable with your word. Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.”
Making Your Non Religious Reading Special
When you’ve chosen your non-religious wedding reading, make it special by adding a personal touch. If you’re having a friend or family member read the passage, ask them to add a few lines of their own at the end or to make some comments about your relationship. You can also include a few religious elements if you wish; some couples opt to include a short prayer or blessing at the end of their wedding reading.
Non Religious Wedding Readings for Your Special Day
Non-religious wedding readings can be just as meaningful as religious ones, and they’re perfect for couples who want to keep their wedding ceremony light and fun. Whether you choose a poem, a passage from a book, or something you wrote yourself, make sure it speaks to your relationship and expresses the emotions you have for each other. With the right non-religious reading, you can make your special day even more special.